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We are not built to hold grudges

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We are not built to hold grudges

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James Washington

One of the key areas of ‘being Christian’ I know I have problems with is the idea of forgiveness.

Maybe you do too.

Jesus, time and again, reminds His disciples although the laws of His Father are crystal clear, God is always receptive to a repentant heart.

“Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation,” 2 Corinthians 7:10. Some say God is a second chance giver. Others know He is another chance giver. The latter would apply to me.

Without another chance or two or three, or four, my gaining entrance to the kingdom would certainly be a lost cause.

The whole point of Christ’s crucifixion was to forgive us our sins, thereby freeing us from the prospect of trying to earn our way into God’s good graces. Christ took care of that for us indeed. “In Him, we have redemption through His blood, the forgiveness of sins, per the riches of God’s grace He lavished upon us with all wisdom and understanding,” Ephesians 1:7-8.

I guess this identifies forgiveness as the focal point for the Christian experience and deserves our serious attention.

You see, even though Christ fulfilled His purpose on the cross, our obligation to forgive became critical as we assume the position of ‘being saved.’ We too, are now part of the forgiveness experience, if you catch my meaning: “Forgive us our trespasses as we forgive those who trespass against us.”

We must exhibit mercy and forgiveness in our own lives if we are to enjoy the blessing of mercy and forgiveness so graciously given to us. “Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you,” Colossians 3:13.

This is not turn-the-other-cheek stuff. This is just “let-it-go-forgive-and-forget” stuff and it’s hard. We are not built to hold grudges, not to seek revenge, not to want to get even or not to wish harm on those who have done harm to us. It is so much easier to play the eye for an eye game.

When you understand your own unwillingness to forgive or your own just don’t want to attitude, it is easy to hear Christ say: “He who is without sin cast the first stone,” John 8:7.

Some of us even have the nerve to walk around with rocks in our hearts as well as our hands. The honest Christian recognizes that the world is more easily navigated with a do unto others as you would have them do unto you frame of mind.

I don’t know about you, but I’d rather be done by people who will do me correctly. Do me in the name of the lord and I’ll do you likewise. You know, somewhere that loving your neighbor as yourself thing is messing with somebody reading this right now.

As human beings, we tend to complicate the simplest of God’s edicts. So allow me to put my point to you this way. The road to heaven is readily navigated by the ones who let the stones go. The road to hell is navigated by the ones who throw them. Which one are you?

May God bless and keep you always.

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